Choosing a divorce attorney is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during this entire process. The problem is, most people don’t know where to start. When stress is high and answers feel urgent, it’s easy to call the first lawyer that pops up on Google or the one a friend used years ago. And sometimes that works out… but far too often, it doesn’t.
The truth is every divorce is different. Your goals, your financial picture, your parenting situation, your home, and your assets all play a role in what type of attorney you actually need. A lawyer who’s perfect for a high-conflict custody case usually isn’t the right fit for a simple uncontested divorce. A firm that handles complex business valuations might be overkill — and overpriced — for someone who just needs a clean, efficient split.
That’s where Separate Ways comes in.
We’re not a law firm.
We’re not here to push you toward any attorney.
We’re here to help you choose the right one.
And we do it ethically, honestly, and — most importantly — 100% free.
Divorce is emotional, but hiring an attorney shouldn’t be. A good lawyer can protect your rights, keep things on track, and help you avoid unnecessary conflict. The wrong one can drag things out, inflate bills, or push strategies that don’t actually serve your best interests.
Some of the biggest mistakes people make when hiring a divorce attorney include:
Choosing the first name they see online
Hiring someone based on a friend’s situation (which is totally different from theirs)
Selecting a lawyer who only handles one type of case
Working with someone whose billing doesn’t match their budget or goals
Falling for “high-conflict” attorneys when their case doesn’t require one
Assuming every divorce requires full legal representation
We built Separate Ways to prevent those mistakes — and to give you clarity when everything feels overwhelming.
The truth is every divorce is different. Your goals, your financial picture, your parenting situation, your home, and your assets all play a role in what type of attorney you actually need. A lawyer who’s perfect for a high-conflict custody case usually isn’t the right fit for a simple uncontested divorce. A firm that handles complex business valuations might be overkill — and overpriced — for someone who just needs a clean, efficient split.
That’s where Separate Ways comes in.
We’re not a law firm.
We’re not here to push you toward any attorney.
We’re here to help you choose the right one.
And we do it ethically, honestly, and — most importantly — 100% free.
Our entire service is designed to remove stress, save time, and save money. Here’s how we help:
Your goals, your kids, your assets, your level of conflict — it all matters. We take the time to understand what you truly need.
That means no random matches. No pay-to-play. No lawyers buying your contact info.
Only vetted professionals who actually fit your circumstances.
Not every divorce needs a $400–$600/hr attorney.
Not every divorce needs litigation.
Sometimes the right move is a simple, efficient process — and we’ll guide you toward the option that protects your finances.
The longer you search on your own, the longer your divorce drags on.
We streamline the entire process so you get clear direction, smart recommendations, and accountability.
No fees.
No retainers.
No “consultation charges.”
Separate Ways was built to make divorce easier — not more expensive.
Divorce isn’t only about legal paperwork. It’s also about real-life logistics.
Separate Ways helps you with:
Marital home decisions
Real estate and refinancing referrals
Financial planning essentials
Organizing and valuing marital assets
Preparing clean case files
Connecting with trustworthy home-service providers if you need to move, sell, or prepare a property
And more — all included inside our free app
Everything is designed to keep you organized, supported, and moving forward with confidence.
There are plenty of attorney directories out there, but they all work the same: pay to be listed, pay to rank higher, pay to appear in front of people. None of that has anything to do with what’s best for you.
We’re different.
We don’t sell your information.
Attorneys cannot pay to be recommended.
We only match based on fit — not advertising dollars.
Our service is free because people deserve help during one of life’s hardest moments.
We exist for the person trying to make smart decisions under pressure… not for the attorneys looking to buy more leads.
Whether your divorce is simple, complicated, calm, or high-conflict, starting with the right guidance makes everything easier. We help you cut through the confusion so you can make informed, confident decisions from the very beginning.
You don’t have to rush into hiring someone.
You don’t have to guess.
You don’t have to pay thousands just to get clarity.
Start with Separate Ways.
We’ll help you understand your options, choose the right attorney, and keep your divorce as painless — and affordable — as possible.
Connect with a top-rated attorney through Separate Ways and enjoy a special discount on their services. Let us match you with the right legal expert and save on your divorce today!
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Our goal is to help you find the right attorney to ensure you have the best possible outcome for your situation.
